The Mother Of The Bride Steps Out
What are you wearing?
My friend has one daughter. The wedding last summer was a young, fun event with lots of dancing and joy, due in part to a two-year pandemic delay. When I asked her what she was wearing, she said, “I’m going to have two dresses; one for the wedding and dinner, and another for dancing.”
Believe it or not, that’s not unusual these days. In fact, her daughter also had two dresses. The wedding dress was a beautiful, ball gown style. The exquisite fabric was all the embellishment needed. Then when the dancing got started, the bride changed into a beaded, one-shoulder long dress with a slit up the side. And mom went from a warm white fitted dress with simple lines to a black dress that was knee-length in the front and long in the back. It was a fun fashion night.
A lot of brides and their moms are on the same page.
According to Inside Weddings, “If you’re looking to wear a classic, conservative wedding dress for your church ceremony, but you want a sexy, revealing gown for your reception, you can do both. Changing after the ‘I do’s’, and before the wedding toasts has become a popular trend because brides want to honor their religious beliefs, and feel like themselves on their big day.” This holds true for mothers of the bride too.
Rules of the road for mothers of the bride
Take your cue from your daughter. She and the groom set the tone for the event. As to your dress choice, mother’s should follow the bride’s lead regarding style, colors, and formality.
When you shop for your dress, bring the bride-to-be with you. It’s always more fun to have a side-kick who will give you an honest critique. I have to say, as the mother of three daughters (all below college age), when they say “Nah” or shake their heads ‘No’ to something I tried on, I usually don’t buy it. Remember, you don’t want to be at odds on wedding attire.
Start your dress search at least 3 months before the big day in order to accommodate any alterations.
Keep it glam: Most wedding parties today have hair and make-up artists at the venue, so everyone – including the moms – can coordinate. It’s also fun!
We have mother-of-the-bride dresses for galore!
Shop La Jolie MLN’s online Wedding Boutique or our retail location in Elmhurst. We’re bursting at the seams with dresses. Here are a few looks to consider:
Our Nox Tea Length Cowl Cocktail Dress is perfect for an afternoon or evening wedding. For church, pair it with a dressy shawl or a sparkly little jacket.
For a more covered-up look, try our LaDivine Dress that flows beautifully from the bodice to the ankle and comes in peach or blue.
If you have the body to carry it off, our Nair Black Sequin Maxi Dress is the ideal mix of vampy and modest. The sequined over skirt falls from a V-neck top that reveals the shoulders, and the underskirt is a mini skirt, perfect for the mom who can dance.
Another favorite the Jovani 22576 Asymmetrical Neckline Fuchsia and Red Dress. It’s a statement dress that’s elegant and sophisticated.
Jumpsuits are becoming very popular as well. Check out Jovani 08439 Royal Blue Halter Neck Sequin Jumpsuit. This jumpsuit is sophisticated and comfortable style for the big day.
That’s just a taste of what you’ll find in our vast collection. If you’re like my friend who went for two dresses, we can accommodate you.
For new moms of the brides and grooms, La Jolie MLN offers a fun and elegant array of dresses at a range of affordable prices. Find your dream dress – or dresses if you want two looks -can be found here.
